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Mutual Sympathy – Physical Attraction, Emotional Connection and Mindful Acceptance


Many have seen my ads in the web, and many have noticed the phrase “Mutual Sympathy” – the magic element needed to create all sorts of extras and custom experiences.

However – in some cases it was misunderstood as an “extra $”, “tip” and other materialistic goods.

Nope – Mutual Sympathy is not about the money, at all. It can be used as a reason to provide a nice discount or create an unique Session especially for you – but what is it and how to achieve it?


Mutual Sympathy is basically when two (or more – depends) like each other. It is a connection on three levels – physical, emotional and mental.


Firstly, when we meet someone – our Body analyzes the incoming information: how the person looks, smells, how his/her voice sounds etc. Based on that – the Body makes a statement about the role of the guest:

– Is he/she suitable for a sexual act with me?

– Is he/she is dangerous or safe for my health and well-being?

– Can he/she help with my primal needs?

In the same time our Soul (responsible for feelings and emotions) analyzes the guest on energetic level and creates it’s own statement:

– Is he/she more/less powerful or on the same level with me?

– How he/she can help my spiritual growth and further enhancement?

– What frequency he/she is on and how this affects me?

Finally, the Mind comes into the play and makes it’s statement, based on our Ego, beliefs and everything we consciously know:

– Is he/she higher/lower or on the same social level with me?

– Based on my personal history, what would be the optimal behavior with him/her?

– What social goals can I achieve with the help of this person?

Connections Sympathy


The truly good connection – is the “Approval” on each level


If our Body likes the person – if it sees him/her as a Sexual Partner, then strong Physical Attraction is created.

If the person is not suitable to be our Sexual Partner – but at least is safe and can be useful in satisfying our primal needs, then the Body just feels comfortable and the person seems friendly.


If the person is higher or same spiritual and energetic level + the frequency is suitable for us, then the Emotinal Attraction is created.

If he/she is lower level or unsuitable to set a useful spiritual connection – then we wouldn’t feel emotional interest or would feel that something is wrong on our emotional level.


If he/she is socially higher/same level with us and is a good, valued person according to our beliefs – then we would have respect and mental interest straight away.

If the person is lower socially, going against our beliefs or threatening our self-esteem – then psychological defenses will rise and Ego would come to play as one of defensive/expansive mechanisms we have.


These three statements are taking moments to create and can’t be faked. They can be ignored though – but they never get wrong.


The Body can be ignored – but without a Sexual Attraction (libido) or physical feeling of Comfort the contact will only bring disappointment and negativeness.

The Soul can be ignored – but without the true feelings and emotions the contact will be empty and pointless.

The Mind can be ignored – but then we will have to fight and suppress our own psychological mechanisms, leading to psychological problems and mental depletion.


All in all – getting the tick in each of the three is called Mutual Sympathy, and is always a start of a great relationship (friends, mates, partners, client/therapist or any other relationship).

If the Body and Soul is ticked – then it is still a Mutual Sympathy, but the time will be needed to “make the Mind” and get the third tick hours/days/weeks after the first impression.

If the Body or Soul is not ticked – then it is not a Mutual Sympathy and no close relationship is possible. Very rarely and only when there is a need it can be ticked after months or even years of toughness and difficulties – mostly when you have to stay with the person at any costs (family members, for example).


And there is absolutely no point in fooling your own self! Believe your signals and stay happy 😉

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