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Porn Addiction – it’s Nature, Consequences and How to Overcome it

In the last couple of months of my practice I’ve met many guys (and girls – don’t be surprised by that!) with different levels of Porn Addiction – also I have few friends with this addiction. Mostly it is not considered as addiction, as alcoholism or drug addictions – however, it is based on the same principles, have almost the same results and there is the same solution on how to overcome it.

“Isn’t it a Massage Blog – why are you talking about addictions?”

– Well, it is also my Personal Space, where I post anything that I find relevant or useful to my Practice, clients or any other web surfers, who got to know me through my words.

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Sasha Grey knows it all…

First of all – as many of you may know, everything is Energy. Everything around and inside of you is a different manifestation of the same, universal Energy, differentiating in firmness, frequency, complexity and overall structure. Human being itself is a conglomerate of its components – organs, systems, microorganisms, cells etc. Whatsoever, if you’ll look inside the smallest component – it’ll still be created out of the same Energy, as anything else.

The Energy itself doesn’t have many properties – it is just the endless field of opportunities, spreading in every possible way around. To get some properties, Energy is taking some form, structure – which has certain life span, frequency, characteristics etc. So – if everything is a consequence of the same field of possibilities (let’s say the same immense creature) – therefore everything is connected on some level. And if the Energy itself doesn’t have the property of time and away from all forms and structures remains as “absolutely anything possible” – hence any creature has energetic access to any point of possible time/place reality.

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Ok, enough of “Stephen Hawking Style” – let’s move to out dear Porn Addiction!

What is a Porn Addiction? It is the human’s mania to feel the energies of the Porn Actors (and the whole act) with all the signs of Sexual Act – arrousal, Dopamine overdose, sexy mood etc.

What is a Porn Movie? It is the kind of movie, where the Actors, as part of the team with Stylists, Beauty Therapists, Producers, Operators and many others, who remain behind the curtain, performing the Sexual Act of variable styles and genres. In other words – it is the product of the whole professional team’s work, who create that 20-90 minutes of hot, sexy, naughty and sometimes – irresistible beautiful and attracting action.

Energetically, Porn Movie (as any other Movie) is an artificially created mini-world of one scenario, which can be watched and re-lived endless times by anyone, who has access to it through the websites, DVD’s, adult cinemas etc.

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Long Mint – a Specialist in turning Straight guys to at lease Bi-Sexuals 😉

Basically – every time you watch Porn (or any other movie), you feel the energy of the act – which is combined energy of everyone involved. In other words – everyone, who has access, can feel these energies and re-live the scenario in his/her own body in the lighter, softer version by just watching it.

It is not very realistic (comparing to the world we live in) though – it is an artificial act between two well-looked Actors, cut and edited until it is perfect enough to be sold. It is the concentrate – concentrated Sexual Act in vitro.

Without the knowledge of Energetic Rules – guys and girls considering a Movie as “just a picture”, with all the coming feelings and mind images as “the product of Imagination” and “just thoughts”. It is not considered as a real energetic connection – rather as a fuel for different fantasies and a child’s play. However – ignorance of the Rules is not an excuse, so every time you watch Porn or any other Movie, you actually connect to this artificial world and re-live the Actor’s roles in your own body. Yep, you may like it. Your body may think, that it is real – and love it so much, so you wouldn’t be able to live without it. Your energy may be overwhelmed – so the real world we live in may fade away. Your Dopamine receptors may be so overwhelmed by the amount of the hormones, so they would go numb to protect themselves. You may even think, that it is your own feelings and desires after all – and try to integrate them in your own life.

As a result – tiny girls, who seek the guys with 20cm+ cocks for an aggressive interaction, which injures them. Or the guys, who loved the energies of female Porn Stars and believing, that they have their own Feminine desires and slut-personality, so they would change their sex only to understand, that these has never been their own desires. Or random unprotected sexual intercourses, leading to STI’s and unwanted children. And so on…

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“Blacked” – the Icon of Modern Porn Industry

As any other addiction, Porn Addiction is having severe effect on the Human’s creature on different levels:

Energetically – on the base, the concentration on someone else’s energy as your own leads to depletion, weakness and psychological problems.

Mentally – creates many artificial images, which, in connection to energetic and physical aspects, creates an illusionary world, twisting the real world’s perception and depleting the psyche.

Physically – leads to burnout of Dopamine receptors (pleasure receptors), what makes the real world’s picture faded and uninteresting and reduces the motivation to do the real actions. Plus – excessive masturbation or sexual arousal consumes too much of body’s resources, leading to overall weakness and decadence.

In contrast to the real Sexual act, which generates energy for both partners and creates healthy connections – Porn only consumes energy, creating useless, parasitic energetic connections and leads to depression, anxiety and other mental – and, of course, sexual problems

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Most M2F Transsexuals start their transition from Porn Addiction, admiring Female Porn-Starts and other Transsexuals

However – if you still decide to treat yourself with a Porn delight, like a good glass of wine after the tasty dinner – there is a way to do it in a right way:

  • Concentrate on how your own body feels. Feel every part of it, count your breath and get into meditative state of mental stillness.
  • Feel the contrast between the energies of the Actors – and your own.
  • Continuing to pay attention to your own body, shift some part of it to the Movie.
  • Feel the artificial Act on the screen and your own body in the same time.
  • Enjoy yourself 😉

This way you can minimize the negative effects, having all the positives (which are getting only brighter with 100% awareness!). The same can be done with any virtual realities – games, movies, ads etc.

To overcome the Porn Addiction, as any other addiction – feel free to follow some simple steps:

  1. Make a firm decision for yourself, if needed – write it down on the paper and put it on your wall/fridge/anywhere highly visible for you.
  2. Identify all the ways you were accessing your Addiction and make sure, that you made it impossible for you to reach them (turn on the Safe Search in Google, delete all Porn files from PC etc.)
  3. Concentrate highly on your physical body – get more sport (Gym is perfect), eat tasty foods, have real sex with desired partner etc.
  4. Meditate every evening before going to bed on the real feelings your body have (Fulfillment Meditation, Pranayama (Breath Awareness).
  5. Fill your real life with new, exciting events, affairs and friends.
  6. Every time you get the craving to come back to your Addiction – concentrate on your own, real body, how it feels and get aware of your breathing.

The main hint is to realize, what effect the Porn Addiction (or any other) have on your life (you can write down all positives and negatives – compare it to your goals and dreams) – starting from that, make decision and never changing it (finality of decisions – one of the key characteristics of a strong, successful human).

Stay strong, believe in yourself – and you’ll do it. In 3-6 months, the cravings will stop – and you’ll enter the new, wonderful life with many new opportunities and ways, that were closed while you were wasting your energy for momentary, addictive pleasures.

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