Why Regular Clients get the best Experiences – building Trust and Connection.
First of all – let’s get back to the functional explanation of the word “connection”:
To connect means to open the possibility of exchange – as the energy is the fundamental substance, so any connection is an energetic exchange.
The energy which builds up in our own structure contains our own personal imprint – it can be then read as an information on different levels, mostly non-verbal.
In the nature of any connection is to give the energy with our imprint and receive the same amount of energy with foreign imprint in return.
Basically – when the continuous connection takes place, it is reasonable to say that one person consists of relatively large part of another person.
As the connection gets better – it becomes easier for energy to perform the exchange and in the same time, as the psychological defenses are relaxing and allowing more information to flow, the exchange is getting richer.
Coming to the Client-Therapist relationship – basically it has no difference to any other connection on the energetic level.
Yes – it is fundamentally the same as the relationships between lovers, hostiles, relatives or any other connection between humans.
So – the only variables that differ the connections are:
– Trust, as the level on access that our psychological/energetic defenses give to the connection (same as Firewall gives access levels to connections coming to your laptop).
– Quality of the energy exchanged, as the continuation of Trust and, on other hand, the result of our intention (to heal, to please, to harm or many other intentions we may have).
Intention can be set from the very first moment (Client’s intention is usually to get relaxation, receive pleasure and relieve tension; Therapist’s – to help, to heal and to maintain).
Trust is what’s building with time, that depends on the Mutual Sympathy (if there is a sympathy – Trust can be built in a couple of hours time; if there is no sympathy – it can take weeks, months and years).
Finally, when the Trust is built and the Intention is right – the connection gets nice and powerful allowing to exchange as much energy as required without any blockages or disruptions.
What does that mean?
Oh, it just opens the whole Universe with every touch! It gives the “high priority” level of access to the Therapist, allowing him to heal and create the Masterpiece of touch and flow with the highest effectiveness (means that every move that Therapist does reaches the intended destination).
The Client feels much safer and it takes a couple of minutes (literally) for him/her to completely relax and open up to the healing and pleasing process.